Narcissistic Objectivity

YOU ARE NOT HERE. I DO NOT SEE OR HEAR OR KNOW YOU.

Remember that you are not alone and there is hope regarding your situation!  If you are in a narcissistic relationship, you owe it to yourself to learn all you can about the signs of the disorder and how the behaviors operate.

The silent treatment is one form of punishment the narcissist might use with his/her victims.  The narcissist behaves as though you are no longer in the room or even on the planet. It is a tactic to manipulate and control you, as well as a punishment.  Perhaps you dared to question the narcissist or even point out a flaw in him or her.  He or she has no problem acting like you no longer are present at all.  To them, you are just like that vase on the shelf, the grass on the ground.  You are now an OBJECT to the narcissist.

Whatever you do, do NOT attempt to force the narcissist to talk to you or interact.  Let the narcissist live in his/her cocoon of silence without you and don’t show that it even phases you one bit.  By trying to get the narcissist to respond to you, you may place yourself in a situation in which the narcissist figures that he/she needs to increase the punishment on you.  He or she may resort to worse behaviors if this happens.

YOU ARE NOT AN OBJECT. If you are being abused, it’s time to TAKE ACTION! Contact the abuse, the Human Rights Commission, or anyone that is a safe person or place to get help.  You DID NOTHING TO DESERVE any mistreatment by the narcissist. You deserve respect, honor, and love.  Sadly, you will not find genuine care from a narcissistic person.  It may be time to move on elsewhere, leaving the narcissist to figure out his/her own issues if they so choose.