There are ways to know if you might be living with a
narcissistic person. Guilt trips, constant criticism, false accusations, demand
that you do everything their way, making their choices, and feeling like you
never measure up, are ways to know that narcissism is present.
Do you feel devalued, controlled, at fault even for things
you did not do? Do you feel almost like you do not exist or are invisible until
you can do something for the other person?
Are you “tripping over” yourself to please the other person but never
being able to?
Is the person you live with able to turn on and off
emotions? Did they suddenly go from loving to abhorring you? Do they seem to have no true care for you or
other people? When they look at you, do you see void or emptiness behind their
eyes?
Do conversations turn always back onto them? Does the person
in your situation say tactless, rude, mean comments to or about you (even in
front of others).
Does the other person throw temper tantrums, constantly seem
to be competing with you? Tease you mercilessly and seem to find great
enjoyment with this or just not care that you find it irritating and invasive?
What is HEALTHY NARCISSISM?
Clear boundaries of self and respecting boundaries of
others, desire to do your best, desire to be accepted and loved.
radio interview: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/othersideoflife/2013/03/21/dark-heart-wounded-pastexposing-a-narcissist
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