There are ways that can help you cope if you have to or choose to live with a narcissist. You need to realize that the narcissist can NEVER meet your needs for companionship, protection, emotional connection, or love. You need to become very self-sufficient because they will not do that job for you or for your children.
Having boundaries is a very important part of living with a narcissist. Sadly, narcissists may not respect your boundaries, since they feel very entitled. This is why I generally advise people to leave if they can. Enslavement is NEVER acceptable in a relationship. If the narcissist thinks you are their puppet or robot, they will use this to enforce the rule that they always come first and your needs do not count.
Support is crucial in your situation of living with the narcissistic family member. You must surround yourself with as many stable-minded people as you can. A support group is an excellent idea for you to find people who understand what you are feeling and going through and who can help you find options.
Physical abuse is not ok, EVER. If he/she put their hands on you, OUT YOU GO!
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