There are many behaviors of narcissists that can make you feel NUTS! First, they are people that live almost obsessively/compulsively rigid and by routine. This helps the narcissist feel more secure, but it also makes him/her appear robotic. It also makes them predictable after a while.
Narcissists are "affection-junkies" as long as the affection can be his/her supply source. Once that supply ends or he senses it is about to, he will discard you after replacing you with someone else. Underneath the mask of"Mr/Mrs Wonderful is a lot of anger, rage, revenge, and ugliness. These traits are based on the defense mechanism that was built up over the years.
If you begin seeing through the narcissist, he/she will start smearing, mocking, criticizing, projecting onto you. You will be victimized and subjected to much torment. Don't be shocked if you've been with the narc for years, if suddenly they seem disinterested, bothered by your need for them, or even full of rage because you are "never satisfied." That is ABOUT THEM! The narcissist NEVER CARED and still DOES NOT CARE about you. I know you think that you and they had this wonderful, magical love affair, marriage, relationship, but that's only in YOUR mind, and was never in theirs. They simply used you till they next best thing came along.
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