The narcissistic spouse believes he is like his partner’s God, presents
himself as superior, lacks remorse, feels entitles, blames his partner, lies,
presents himself of being super busy and needed by people, has low self-esteem
but presents a false-persona of him/herself, expects his partner to be a
mind reader, is a people-studier so he knows what buttons to push.
When with a person like this, you need to remain calm and
not overreact, realize that their projections on you do not mean that you are
the guilty one. You need to realize that
it is them with the problem, not you.
You also need to understand that when you saw him “switch” from a nice,
giving, loving person, he really did not switch…he was pretending to be “Mr
Wonderful.” He never WAS the man of your dreams and she was never the woman of
them either. They rarely become whole
unless they literally are removed from society and agree to look at their lives
without anyone praising them.
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